The early parenting challenges

The birth of a child is a miracle in itself. From a drop to a full human baby the journey is unbelievable. How the world of a two loving partners changed positively with the arrival of the new born. All friend and family celebrate the new born and give a worm welcome to the world. There is baby shower and the new born rooms is already filled with so much toys, cloths, baby hamper, toiletries, rattles and many other things. It seems really cute for the new parents to thing about the baby to come. They start dreaming how they will play with the child, how he/she will call them, what would be his/her name etc.

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The charm of the new baby has its own place but after the baby arrives the parents then realize that it’s not only a toy to play but infect a big responsibility on their shoulders. A new born is in fact an imperative task to fulfill. The upbringing of a baby is not an easy job. The early development of the child has a major impact on the child’s later life and development.

The biggest challenge of the new born is to give her complete care and give an utmost priority to all the other things. It’s very difficult to wake up again and again at night0 and also spend sleepless nights and busy days with a child. There can be cases when the child is ill and the only thing he needs in illness is the lap of the mother. He is small he don’t understand the fact that you are tired or you also have other task to look into. He just needs a comforting someone is around all the time. The new born is vulnerable to many things like milk splitting up, the roll over, the gastric issues, colic, milk indigestion etc. all of their need immediate actions otherwise the after effects can be very dangerous.

It was an old approach that the childes behavior development starts after the age of five. The new researches are up to the fact that the child first five years is the basic making the behavior of the child. There are many things you as a parent can do to help your child grow and learn during each stage of development. For the new born the feeling of being secure and staying close to the mother helps in making a strong man in future and also promotes positive thinking.

There are many developmental miles stones that a child achieves and they are also a great source of happiness for the parents to see their child reaching that milestone, but with every now act the baby start here comes a series of protective measure that the parents need to take. Like when the child started rolling over, any place where the child use to be safe is not safe at all. Put piles of pillows around him. When he starts crawling, never leave a child alone on the bed or on any high place.

A waling child is the most dangerous of all specially up to age 3 when everything is accessible to him, he can walk and do whatever he wants but don’t have a strong enough brain to realize the difference between right and wrong. When a baby becomes part of your family, it is time to make sure that your home is a safe place. Look around your home for things that could be dangerous to your baby. As a parent, it is your job to ensure that you create a safe home for your baby. It also is important that you take the necessary steps to make sure that you are mentally and emotionally ready for your new baby.

We don’t know what’s going in the child’s mind. Sometimes you might think that he is acting in a bad manner but the fact is that he actually doesn’t know how to behave. When anybody disturbs him he reacts irrespective of the fact that whoever is seeking to him. Teaching right and wrong from the beginning is very important as the child understand the there are certain limits for me and I cannot do anything beyond that. It’s also a cruel truth that whatever bad thing a child is just the poor upbringing of the mother and all the good traits are the result genetics.

The overall process of child’s development need care patience and tolerance. And there traits play a vital role and their impact goes along the life of the child and play and important role in building the child’s personality.