A good marriage is one which allows for change and growth in the individuals and in the way they express their love ~ Pearl.S.Buck
We can’t see the God but the sign shows that how much He loves us. Out of many the one is the presence of wife. You don’t have a close blood relation with them but at many points you realize that they are even more close to you then blood relations. The time you get married to the girl of your dream, you are blessed with a best friend, lover, a console, a caregiver and a secret keeper all in one person that is your wife. She is someone you know will steady you when you are faltering and will go all out to cheer you up, when you are feeling low. Above all she is the mother of your kids and your home maker.
Men’s are really bad in expressing love. Their love is hidden behind their caring actions but blurred out because there is no words’ showing it, no flowers depicting it. But women are different they want a full expression of love in words and action, an expression which is loud and clear. They want to hear and feel it again and again. All women’s are different and we can apply one simple formula for all. So try to figure out what gesture and language of love will appeal your wife the most and express in the same way.
Recall the last time you did something to make your wife feel special…. Oh it’s really bad that you have to think for that much long. Here are few ideas. Surly one or couple of them will best suit to your situation as well. Give your wife a chance to feel that she is the luckiest women in this world that she is “your wife”. Whether you are a brand new husband eager to make her the happiest bride, or a long-wedded spouse wishing to rediscover the fun-loving girl you married, here are some infallible ways to make your wife happy. Try them out and feel a new zest in your relationship.
Surprise her with gifts and flowers
Gifts giving always encourage love and good relations. So why not try out this special recipe for building good relations with your wife.
- There are a lot of gift hamper for women are available in markets and you can also make them at home. Just combine all things she will love and pack in a basket. The gifts can wary as per your budget and what she loves. If want an idea then jewelry, clothing, watch, handbags, perfumes, personal or kitchen accessories, cosmetics etc. can be a good choice.
- Flowers are the thing really loved by all women and when it’s given by the prince charming of their life I would mean even double. You can’t event imaging the smile on her face on seeing an unexpected flowers bouquet for her by you. So surprise her with fresh beautiful flowers.
Show love by words:
- Call her from work just to say I Love you.
- Write a romantic letter. Love letters written by hand never go out of fashion. Put your most romantic thoughts on paper, preferably perfumed, and it will surely light up your wife’s eyes.
- Leave a Love you note in her office tiffin box. It would really surprise her.
- Write something special for her on refrigerator eggs.
Surprise her with your thoughtfulness:
- Make a bowl of popcorn, when your wife settles down for her favorite TV show or movie.
- Let her sleep in someday and get the kids ready for school.
- Take the kids to the park or make them busy somewhere and let her take a power nap.
Plan some special surprise:
- Take off from office a couple of hours before, go home make food for your wife before she came home.
- Arrange a baby sitter and go for a romantic dinner with your wife. So that she can enjoy without worrying about kids.
- Book a holiday to surprise her.
- Go for a long drive with her and play romantic music.
- Spend quality time together. Invite her for some quality alone time. Mark it on the calendar and don’t let anything get in the way. She deserves the attention and will appreciate having it.
Invite her family on Lunch or Dinner:
- Always try to give respect and importance to your wife family. These are the people who are the most important to her after you. Invite them on a dinner or lunch. It will assure her that you consider them part of your own family and this will make her really happy for marrying you.
Help her in house chores.
- Do some tasks she really hates to do like throwing the thrash out or cleaning the washroom.
- Wash the dinner dishes before she went to kitchen.
- Bring the dishes out of the dishwasher before going to office.
- Iron her cloths.
- Clean the house.
- Compliment her sincerely on something special with her appearance.
- Tell her how special she is for you. And how you feel when you are with her.
- Praise her for all the efforts she do for you and the home.
Book a spa and facial treatment for her.
- Busy life make it difficult to take some quality time out for one self so pamper your wife by booking an aromatic massage therapy, a spa treatment or facial from a reputable saloon. Give her a quality time to relax and rejoice.